When you meet someone you really like, the first kiss is always a bit nerve-wracking. It seems to take over your whole body. You’ll probably have butterflies in your stomach, but they are good butterflies. This kiss is more romantic because you both know what to expect, but it is the kiss that defines the relationship and takes it to the next level.
Who should kiss whom the first time? This is a question asked by a lot of people all over the world. I say it doesn’t matter. A lot of people think it is the guy’s obligation to be first to do everything, such as saying hello, asking the girl out, and making the first move. Is it fair to put all the pressure onto him? Absolutely not. If you feel as though you want to kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should trust your instinct and make the move. There really is no need to stick to a hard and fast rule that says someone else has to make the first move. Good for you for having the guts to dive in for the catch. Now at least you are going to know that you are going to kiss someone and can prepare. The other person may feel the same way as well but may feel too shy to do anything about it.
Decide where you want this first kiss to happen. It should be a semi-romantic situation setting but not cheesy, as this will cause the situation to become more ridiculous than romantic! Consider a place like the park or beach, where you won’t get interrupted by family or friends. A kiss is something shared by two people, so you may not want to kiss this person at a party in full view of friends and strangers. Cherish the first kiss; don’t put it on display for others entertainment.
You shouldn’t kiss when you are in a rush. If you kiss and then have to leave, the other person may feel shocked. This can make it awkward when you meet up the next time. Both of you may want to talk about it a bit, especially if the kiss has changed things with the relationship between you. No doubt you’ll want to kiss for a while, especially seeing as it is your first kiss.
Who should kiss whom the first time? This is a question asked by a lot of people all over the world. I say it doesn’t matter. A lot of people think it is the guy’s obligation to be first to do everything, such as saying hello, asking the girl out, and making the first move. Is it fair to put all the pressure onto him? Absolutely not. If you feel as though you want to kiss your boyfriend or girlfriend, you should trust your instinct and make the move. There really is no need to stick to a hard and fast rule that says someone else has to make the first move. Good for you for having the guts to dive in for the catch. Now at least you are going to know that you are going to kiss someone and can prepare. The other person may feel the same way as well but may feel too shy to do anything about it.
Decide where you want this first kiss to happen. It should be a semi-romantic situation setting but not cheesy, as this will cause the situation to become more ridiculous than romantic! Consider a place like the park or beach, where you won’t get interrupted by family or friends. A kiss is something shared by two people, so you may not want to kiss this person at a party in full view of friends and strangers. Cherish the first kiss; don’t put it on display for others entertainment.
You shouldn’t kiss when you are in a rush. If you kiss and then have to leave, the other person may feel shocked. This can make it awkward when you meet up the next time. Both of you may want to talk about it a bit, especially if the kiss has changed things with the relationship between you. No doubt you’ll want to kiss for a while, especially seeing as it is your first kiss.
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